3 Key Rules to Flirt and Succeed on Online Dating Chats

Seduction relies on several important factors. Even though these criteria vary from person to person, we can draw a few rules that apply to everyone. Here are 3 key tips to seduce someone on an online chat.

Rule #1: Spark Interest…

This is the very first thing to do when chatting with someone online. Whether on a live chat, via email, or on a forum, you need to spark interest. What will make your chat partner reply to you? Put yourself in their shoes and ask yourself the same question… You will spark their interest if you make them laugh (that’s the foundation!) and if you talk about a topic that directly interests them. You don’t know them yet, so ask directly: “What are you passionate about in life?” For now, your only goal is to start the conversation. You will get to know them better as the chat progresses…

Rule #2: Be Yourself…

You hear it constantly on TV or in magazines: “exercise
regularly,” “don’t smoke,” “eat 5 fruits and vegetables a day,” blah blah blah…

Do you want someone to love you for who you are or for who you pretend to be? Do you want to play a role and cheat every moment of your life? Aren’t the coolest people those who know how to truly be themselves? …Those who know how to highlight their own potential?
Don’t try to look like someone else; show who you are instead! This is the best way to build a sincere relationship.

Rule #3: Be Bold!

Between someone who takes no initiative and complains about being lonely versus someone who prefers to go out and build their own happiness, who do you think is more attractive? Are you looking for someone who can support you and help you grow in life, or will you settle for someone who constantly drags you down?

Don’t hesitate to showcase your quick wit (especially in live chat), say who you are, state what you want, and share details about your daily life. You will have a much higher chance of meeting someone who is like you and shares the same dreams and desires.

There is no miracle recipe, but try applying these 3 simple tips and you might just find happiness!